Are Stay at Home Moms More Depressed?Mothers at Work May Have More Physical and Emotional Health BenefitsAug 5, 2007 Laurie Pawlik-Kienlen
In The Feminine Mistake, Leslie Bennetts says working mothers are less likely to struggle with depression than stay at home moms. Are moms with jobs or careers healthier?
Working mothers may be less depressed than stay at home moms, says author and career woman Leslie Bennetts. Working moms may also have better physical health, higher self-esteem, and increased emotional health. For some women, deciding to be a working mom (have a job outside the home) was a tough choice to make. Other women, however, gain a great deal from going back to work – especially moms who work from home. And still other women have to work to pay the bills and support their families. Leslie Bennetts, author of The Feminine Mistake, shares so many benefits of working mothers that it seems to be a mistake to be a stay at home mom! Bennetts' arguments are convincing – but every woman must weigh her own pros and cons of getting a job outside the home. Factors such as financial situation, children's age, work availability, partner support, work passion and health all play a role in the decision to be working mom or stay-at-home mother. Not all working women experience the same physical and emotional health benefits, such as less depression and anxiety. The benefits of being a working mom change depending on profession, interests, and values. For instance, if you're passionate about being and educated as a teacher you may reap more rewards than if you work at the local convenience store, shopping mall, or factory. Moms working from home who can set their hours and choose the type of work they do are in an ideal – and rare – situation. Working Moms Are More Independent, Happier, and Less Depressed"As the survey of gifted women indicates, many simply feel that being a homemaker fails to utilize the full range of their capabilities," writes Bennetts. Working moms feel like they're using all their gifts, talents, and abilities in a more useful capacity than stay at home moms. Intellectual stimulation, problem solving, and handling challenges increase feelings of self-esteem and self-confidence. Working moms have their own financial income, which offers independence, freedom, and security. Moms with careers can make their own decisions about money and purchases; they know how their money is spent. There's a sense of satisfaction in being a working mom, as well as the economic ability to take care of themselves if the marriage or husband's health fails. Working Moms Are Strong Role ModelsRole modeling a successful, happy life as a working mom can benefit both boys and girls. If mom is happy and challenged in her life, she's more likely to encourage a happy and challenging life for her kids. Working Moms Have Happier MarriagesReducing the financial pressure on the working partner is a benefit of working moms. Single income families may have a hard time making ends meet; working moms may ease the burden. Working moms may be more interested and involved in the "outside world", which makes them more interesting to talk to. Living a full, balanced life can lead to a happier marriage because a job or career outside the home can encourage a sense of equality. Working Moms Are Physically Healthier Than Stay at Home Moms"Employed women are healthier than their homemaker peers, despite the pressure of added responsibilities. They have lower blood pressure, lower cholesterol levels, and lower weight," writes Dr. Anna Fels in The Feminine Mistake. "Few facts are as well-documented as the good physical and emotional health of women on the job….Psychologically, working women have less depression than their domestic counterparts, and they have, astonishingly, been reported to have less anxiety." Working Moms Enjoy Increased Social SupportWork can be a strong support network in times of crisis. With the right employer and colleagues, working moms can lean on their coworkers when facing death, illness, or other unexpected challenges. Many friendships start at work and grow stronger over the years. "In comparison with such benefits, the sacrifices required by the juggling act ultimately seem negligible to many working women," says Bennetts in The Feminine Mistake. Every woman's situation is different, but many working mothers seem to enjoy more benefits than stay at home moms. Related ReadingRecognizing the Signs of Depression describes several ways to know if you may be depressed -- whether you're a working or stay at home mom (because working moms get depressed, too). Working From Home describes ten ways to stay productive and motivated while working at home. 8 Ways to Decrease Caregiver Stress offers tips on reducing stress when taking care of loved ones at home.
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