Coping with Stress and Anxiety

Easy Techniques to Reduce Feelings of Anxiety, Stress and Fear

Oct 31, 2007

Stress relief and anxiety management includes listening to music, visualization, and distinguishing between reality and fantasy.

In daily life, stress and anxiety surrounds you: simply getting to work or school, dealing with peers and colleagues, balancing the budget, and communicating with friends and family can increase feelings of anxiety and even fear. Some feelings of anxiety are normal and healthy; extreme anxiety can be physically and emotionally overwhelming.

When you learn to cope with stress and anxiety in a healthy, effective way you’ll not only breath easier, you’ll have better relationships and be more productive at work. Coping with stress and anxiety can ease specific stressful situations, such as surgery.

Anxiety Information

The National Institute of Mental Health cites that 40 million people in America suffer from anxiety disorders. Feelings of anxiety are not only common and treatable – they’re inevitable.

Feelings of anxiety range from mild uneasiness to extreme terror. “Fear is the most powerful emotion,” says Michael Fanselow, a University of California (Los Angeles) psychologist. It’s necessary for survival, and it’ll keep you alive and healthy unless it escalates to abnormal proportions. Appropriate fear and anxiety can help you perform well, keep you alert, and even help you deal with pain.

Physical Effects of Anxiety and Stress

You know how anxiety and stress changes your body. Unhealthy levels of anxiety can cause intestinal problems, stomach pains, headaches, rashes, or flare ups of other chronic illnesses such as ulcerative colitis or migraines. Insomnia and fatigue can also result – as well as psychological struggles such as extreme debilitating anxiety, panic attacks, and depression.

Techniques to Reduce Feelings of Stress and Anxiety

Music. Be creative when you’re suffering with feelings of anxiety and stress. For instance, try music therapy: research shows that listening to relaxing music significantly reduces feelings of anxiety and fear before and during surgery. “Music therapy” doesn’t have to be complicated or expensive. It can simply involve listening to your favorite relaxing music before a stressful event.

Visualization of positive outcomes has also proved to reduce feelings of anxiety and fear. When you focus on a desired outcome, you increase the chances of it happening (The Secret involves visualization).

Distinguish between reality and fantasy. Real threats are very different from perceived ones, or fantasy. For instance, feeling anxious about a meeting or exam you aren’t prepared for is a real fear that can be dealt with; feeling anxious about a hoard of birds attacking is a perceived fear that likely won’t happen. Learning to reassure yourself of the reality of a situation can help you cope with anxiety and stress.

Anxiety medication. Medicating for anxiety and fear may be effective, but learning to cope with stress and anxiety naturally may be better in the long run. Talk to your doctor about anxiety remedies such as Clonazepam or Buspar, which are anxiety-reducing medications.

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